I imagine you are reading this because you are look for your first escort and enter the world of escorts.  You are looking for hints on where to start? We were all there, and we had to search around. In the older days we looked in the back pages of local papers, now we search the internet. Many newcomers to the escort world find themselves swamped by the large number of websites. When the find a webssite, there is often some obscure language used to describe this pastime. I hope to provide you with some explanation of this enjoyable, fascinating, but complex world.

Searching for the best sites

Just as you wouldn’t buy an item from some random website, without checking the credibility of the site, selecting the correct escort directory is vital. Think of it as choosing your Hogwarts house, but instead of wands and spells, you’re selecting charisma and compatibility. Some escort directories are local to a city, area or country, while escort directories may have escort advertisements from all around the world. It is often best to focus on local escort directories which cater for your county, region or even city. Ideally you want a directory that targets Scotland and specifically the cities you may live in, Edinburgh, Glasgow, or Aberdeen. There is another way to search, and that is to use websites that target your preferences. This may be the type of woman, such as large women (BBW), large breasted women, of the type of service they provide, GFE (Girl friend experience), DOM, (Dominatrix services) .

As the years go by, escort directories do come and go, but generally there are More sites listing all escort services as each year goes by.

The Importance of Freshness

When you have found a good escort directory, look through the advertising profiles and check for recently updated profiles. An old advertisement which has not been updated, suggests the escort may not be working. If the entry has her website, then visit there to see her latest details. A good escort directory will lead with paid escort adverts and then the recently updated listings. A paid entry guarantees the woman is working, and recent entries also suggest that this is a real active escort.

Location, Its more than you think

Location is obviously a key factor in your search. Are you’re looking to meet an escort in the local area where you live or work or are or willing to travel. Sometimes, for the sake of discretion, you may not want to meet up for an incall in the local area.  You never know who you might bump into.  To aid you in finding an escort,  a good directory will allow you options to filter by location. For example, living in Edinburgh and you want to meet someone local, then you will want to search for escorts in Edinburgh. If you up to travelling then you might consider an escort in Glasgow or across Forth bridge to Fife.

The style of the date and your Preferences

While searching for your soul mate, you must consider your preferences.  What physical characteristics and what services are you looking for?  Is size of the woman a major factor in the selection. How about hair colour and height? How about personality, conversation? Are you looking for a long date, someone to accompany you for travel and a dirty weekend away. Then there are the obvious requirements, what services does she provide.  Many directories allow you to filter the ladies who are shown to you by physical characteristics of service types. Then read her resume, and consider whether all the information is there, and whether you have any follow up concerns.

Services and Pricing

This is the shopping part, where you may have some specific requirements. What are the specific requirements in the meeting you want. What type of massage, or sex? Is there a requirement for role playing? Do you want a dinner date? This is often there the TLAs appear. The Three Letter Acronyms and short phrases which describe the services. Such as GFE, Facials, CBT , CIM. Yes, there are resources which describe these short names.

Check the price, different escorts will offer their time at different rates. Some will also charge extra for specialist services. Check these carefully

Contact the Escort

Now you have a list of potential escorts for your evening, you should now contact them. The contact methods may vary between escorts and escort directories. First put together a list of questions and think about the services you require.  You might want to check that they provide the services you are looking for.  You might want to make a booking and are asking about their availability, suggest a number of dates and times.  If you are looking for a role play meeting, then you must obviously explain the story to be acted out.

The initial contact may be through a phone call, text message, WhatsApp, or filling in a form on a website, or even old-fashioned email. However, you contact them, be polite and provide as much information as required.  Where you have questions about the service they provide, then ask politely and in detail what you are looking for

If you have been using an escort directory, some directories will provide you with the contact details. Sometimes it will be a link to the escorts website the contavt information may be available. Other escort directories may insist on you using a messaging system to contact the escort. Be warned, that if the directory uses a messaging system, then your communication could be intercepted by the website owner.

Should you look at Reviews

Reviews provide feedback by others who have visited. They must be treated with some scepticism.  Different personalities, off days can bias a review. On the dark side, many reviews may be fabricated. Good reviews could be created by the escort or friends to improve business. Bad reviews can be created by disgruntled clients who harbour a grudge against the escort. Some jealous escorts leave reviews to damage a competitors trade.  It is best to use reviews as a guideline. Do not rely on them for a definitive answer.